Self-Love

And what it means

“How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you”. – Rupi Kaur

Hi Meta Family,

We have focused our social media on all relationships this month. Today we ended the week with Love within the Family. Although all the relationships we’ve covered so far (friendships, intimate relationships, familial relationships), are important, the most important one by far is the relationship we have with ourselves, or what we call Self-Love. Self-Love is defined as “a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness.”  (Khoshaba, 2012). 

When I think about Self-Love, I think of it as the foundation to all relationships. When you have a good relationship with yourself, you can be strong and stable in your relationships with others. You will be in the best place to love them and help them grow, just as you’ll be in the best place to accept their love and grow. One of my most favourite examples to illustrate how important self-love is, is by using the instructions we get from a flight attendant if there was a mishap on an airplane. We are instructed to put our oxygen mask on first, prior to assisting others. These safety instructions provide an important lesson for all individuals: in order to help others, you need to take care of yourself first.

We will be diving more into Self-Love and the ways in which we can practice Self-Love on our social media on Monday, February 27. It’ll be our last relationship segment of the month, so we don’t want you to miss it!  

Check out our Instagram Page here.

The Power of Community

Check out Tricia-Kay Williams’ recent feature in The Source Magazine. Here she speaks about her journey to Canada as a Black woman, and the importance of community for Black-identifying people, Black Women, and Black Youth.

View Tricia’s article here. 

Safe Communities for Black Women and Girls

In light of Tricia’s article, we would like to mention some safe spaces available where Black women and girls can feel a sense of community. Feel free to click on the links below to find out more about each organization.

  1. Thrive-4-Blacks 
  2. Black Women Connect Vancouver
  3. Ethos Lab
  4. Vancouver Black Therapy and Advocacy Foundation
  5. Odihi

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